using NCompare;

var comparer = new ComparerBuilder<MyValue>(new MyInterception())
  .Add(item => item.Age) // Компаратор строится по System.Linq.Expression
  .Add(item => item.Name, StringComparer.OrdinalIgnoreCase) // Можно задавать, как именно сравнивать каждое свойство, поэтому можно сравнивать и коллекции и всё, что угодно
  .CreateEqualityComparer();

var value1 = new MyValue { Age = 7, Name = "X", };
var value2 = new MyValue { Age = 7, Name = "Y", };

if(!comparer.Equals(value1, value2)) {
  Console.WriteLine("Look on Console why values are not equal.");
}//if

internal sealed class MyValue
{
  public int Age { get; init; }
  public string Name { get; init; } = String.Empty;
}

internal sealed class MyInterception : IComparerBuilderInterception
{
  public int InterceptCompare<T>(int value, T x, T y, ComparerBuilderInterceptionArgs<T> args) => value;
  public int InterceptGetHashCode<T>(int value, T obj, ComparerBuilderInterceptionArgs<T> args) => value;

  public bool InterceptEquals<T>(bool value, T x, T y, ComparerBuilderInterceptionArgs<T> args) {
    if(!value) {
      Console.WriteLine($"The comparison of following expression (`{args.ExpressionText}`) returned false: {nameof(x)}: {{{x}}}, {nameof(y)}: {{{y}}}");
    }//if

    return value;
  }
}

The comparison of following expression (`item => item.Name`) returned false: x: {X}, y: {Y}